How can you tell if someone really likes you or if they are using you?

When someone really likes you

Test them! If you think they are using you for example sex, then with hold sex for about 2 weeks. i think it would take that long for them to at least bring it up. If they behave truly concerned and want to talk about it and get to the core of the problem then i think they are around for you. if they are truly just using you then they'll get mad and stop talking to you. But the key is self control. you Have to stop your actions in order to find out the intention of theirs.

Answer

They ask you to do things for them but they never do anything for you in return.

Think about when they went out of the way just for you.

Q#1.) have you given him any?

2.) Did he "convince" you of anything you think is wrong?

3.) Has he proven that you matter more than a sudden cruise? (safety"

Any or all yes answers point to you are just an easy treat. Sorry.

I so like this question...

When someone is using you you can tell by the following:

1) You can get in some serious trouble and they won't give a damn about you.

2) Everything is smooth sailing until you get broke or something goes wrong.

3) They say that they love you, but when you look at them you don't see the first sign of it.

4) They treat you like a trophy, and they put you up on a high pedistal; just to say that they own you or that you belong to them.

But, when someone truly loves you, none of that stuff that I mentioned will happen. They won't care about the money, sex, clothes, and showing you off to the world. The only reason why they should show you off is because you are the only thing that makes them shine.

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