How do you know when you are true soul mates?

When all sins are forgiven, love shows itself in a pure form. The ability to see that seperates those who can know love and the unfortunate souls that mix up what love is, self-cursed to wander the earth mistaking love and sex. Ending thier life alone looking back with regret and tears having seen in hindsight what was had and tossed out.

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I always wanted to believe that soulmates exsisted purely because of the romantic factor, but I never really thought I would ever meet mine. And as it turns out, I already had. Sixteen years ago in high school. I recieved an email on classmates. com from a guy who was 2 years ahead of me in school. I never paid for the membership so I couldn't respond to his email, but I felt rude not replying. So I looked him up on facebook and emailed him back. I recognized his name, but I couldn't put of a face with it. After weeks of constant emailing (several times a day) we decided to talk on the phone. At this point in our lives we live about 4,000 miles away from each other. As soon as we were on the phone it was as if we had known each other our whole lives. It was easier to talk to him than anyone I have ever known. Yet we'd never even spoken in high school. I imediately called my mom when I got off the phone and asked her to pull out my old yearbook. My mom starts laughing and says that I must have had a crush on him because I had little stars drawn around his picture. I was so confused! I couldn't remember his face at all. At the same time, this guy texts me his picture from the yearbook. I nearly fell over. NOW I remembered! He never talked to me before so I assumed he didn't know I exsisted. As it turns out, he was just too nervous to talk to me. He even remembers what I wore to prom and who I went with. Funny! So we have been talking everyday, several times a day, sometimes for 5 or 6 straight hours in the evening. In between phone calls we text. From the first time we spoke, we've been finishing each others sentences, cracking the same jokes, using the same lines, etc. We want exactly the same things out of life. We even have the same job/occupation. I have never felt like someone was meant for me before. But this is it. After one week of talking he'd asked me if I would marry him someday. It didn't feel scary one bit! Right now he's in the process of moving to be with me. If that isn't soulmates, I don't know what is!

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Soul mates exist. When you see him/her, you come to life. You are free to shed tears, laugh, dream and be yourself with no masks. He/she is out there. You just have to believe.

I met mine when I was in high school. As others have stated when we kissed each other it was wonderful. I caused us not to be together. Now he hates me because of what I did. He didn't tell me this directly, but I can feel it. Now I feel the pain I put him through. This has been going on over 20 years. I don't feel complete without him. I want him to be happy with or without me. I do feel lucky to have felt this love. I just wish that I would have stayed by his side.

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If you feel that you're with a "soul mate", that's wonderful, but don't ruin a good relationship because it may not be perfect. If you both love eachother, you can work out any problems you have.

-Personally, I don't believe in soul mates. Or I believe that there is more than one person out there compatible with you. Its a nice thought to believe that you are with the one you are "meant to be with," but I have thought that with every boyfriend I've had. I think its just a matter of finding someone you can be yourself with 100% and vice versa, and I think theres only a few people in the world you can do that with. So if you find one of them, maybe they are ONE of your soul mates?

If you have to ask then maybe he or she isn't your soul mate at all. You'll just know when you find 'the one'.

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I knew my wife was the right one for me after one week, I felt like asking her to marry me after only 4 days, but waited a few days to be sure. I never wanted to get married to any woman I ever met before I met her. I dated a woman previous to meeting my wife for 3 1/2 years and I never entertained the thought of marrying her. I had previously dated more than 60 women; not all of which was I sexually involved. My wife and I have been married since 1994.

At least for a certain type of man, they can know in just a short time that the one they are with is the right one.

My uncle was driving down the road and saw a woman walking with friends next to the road; he knew immediately he was going to marry her. And they have been devoted to one another for the past 40+ years.

Test this for yourself, go ask the men who you see with their wives that are at least 60 years old and visibly happy about being with their wife. Ask them how long it was from the time they met to the time he asked her to marry. Almost without exception, people who have been happily married for 40+ years knew immediately that they were compatible, and for him that they were made for each other. In most cases, elderly happily married men asked their wives to marry them within a couple of weeks, and often hours!

So yes, for some men, they will know, but it's not just about the eyes. However, women don't seem to catch on so quickly. Their motivations are justifiably more material. Unless a woman has and continues to provide for herself financially as a man generally does, she needs to be concerned about her financial future; so instinctively women rarely identify their soulmate.

And before women pounce upon me for that last statement, I know there are a lot of deadbeat men out there that have no ambition and rely upon their wives for support. So it is a two-way street.

Imagine a potential mate as your mate, will they:

• have a long term commitment to you
• continue to date others
• continue to develop new opportunities for the family
• live within a status that you are comfortable
• support your children even if divorced
• care for your children ethically and lovingly
• treat you ethically and lovingly
• live a long life free of disease
  (smokers, alcoholics, and drug users die young and leave you alone)

If they fit neatly within your expectations, good, and do NOT EVER attempt to change them or manipulate them into something else! By this point in their life they are comfortable being the person that they ARE, and you neither have the right nor ability to attempt to change who they ARE. Find someone else if they are not the person you want!!!!!!!!

If that is the case, you might discover your soulmate in other ways.

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There is only one truth that I know of in life; "Something Exists". Everything else has noticable points where many different conditions rub against each other; confluence.

How do you know when your soul is in intimate contact with another person's soul? I knew within a week of meeting my wife. We've been married for 14 years now. I had a strong feeling she was the right one for me.

I surmise there are actual physical means by which we are connected with our soulmates. http://blog.360.yahoo.com/jamesbdunn2?p=142 So if that is the case, the simple act of love connects us.

i believe you travel through life reborn. You may feel as though you have found your soulmate but you may also find that you meet men and feel totally drawn to them, as though you know each other, something in their eyes is so familiar that you cannot quite pinpoint it. As we are born and live we are reborn, some people we meet are first time around and we are attracted due to our general personal energies and personalities. Even when we are with the one we love, either in marriage or just general courting we may encouter a certain overwhelming feeling for someone that we feel we cannot control. These encouters are our past love energies, we were once one and as we travel we some how meet again through different circumstances.

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You will absolutely know without a doubt when you meet your true soul mate. You may not know immediately what is happening but trust me, it won't take long and you will know. It is different from any other kind of relationship that you may have had in the past. There is no comparison at all. It stands apart so much from anything you have experienced that it becomes obvious fairly soon what is happening.

As mentioned above, it is a "certain overwhelming feeling for someone that we feel we cannot control". That is so true. You cannot control it. You cannot change it. You may feel like you have known that person forever. You feel a very strong connection to them that cannot be explained. You love them totally for everything that they are. You will put them before yourself. It is a totally unselfish love. The feeling can completely take over your entire being and existence. I had never experienced anything like it before and didn't really believe very much in soulmates. If you ever meet your true soul mate, you will know without question. You will soon realize that you will never be the same. Everything changes for you whether you can actually be with that person or not. That person will be in your heart, your thoughts, and your very soul always after you meet him or her. You have no interest in anyone else and the thought of being with someone else doesn't even enter your mind. I think that sometimes you can communicate with your true soul mate without even talking. Kind of like what twins can sometimes do.

When I met my soul mate, I didn't know what hit me at first but I knew something was definitely going on. The only way I can describe it is maybe like being hit by lightening or a train or something like that. It is an awesome feeling but it can be scary too because you realize that person holds your heart and soul in their hand and they can crush you if they want to. You become very vulnerable just because your path has crossed with that person....your true soul mate...the love of your life. But...the feeling and love that you have for that person far outweighs the fear and you are happy that you have met them.

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When I met my "soul mate" if you will, it was pretty intense. I just knew that there was something about this person that made me feel completely alive and at ease. We didn't date until 5 and a half years after that first meeting. Instead, we became incredibly good friends, doing everything together, dating other people, and never telling each how we felt about the other until the last month of university, when we realized we were going to be separated. A year and a half later, we are now together living 700 miles apart. You just know. You can't explain it. You just know and feel so so at ease. Of course, it isn't perfect. But it is perfect for the two of you. You are just, work.

Trust me, you will know. It may take a bit to really have it register. But you will know.

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Well, I personaly have become to believe that soulmates actually exist, although my negativism. Recently (a few months ago) I've met someone on my summer job, he's much older than me but you know, the age was just not important. We talked and talked without stopping for all kinds of stuff - I shared with him everything that I had inside ( I still do) and he did so too. But I've never had him as my own property, he had the right to be with whomever he wanted and so did I (as we really were with other people). But that was not the point. I mean there is something different and no matter with who I or he are in the end of the day we always call each other and talk for hours and it's almost like we're together on the same place. We talk about our other relationships but we both know which is the ONE relationship. I can feel it in his voice when he's saying even my nickname, the way he breathes and talks. It's just so strange that he, neither do I have to say anything. We understand each other in such way and level that even the words have no sence. And also, the other strange thing is that I'm not even jealous. A few days ago he decided to make a joke that he met someone really special and see my reaction. I was sooo so happy, I almost flew in midair. I couldn't keep my smile off my face, 'cause I know that at this particular moment we can't be actually together so I was so glad that he met someone that made him happy and not so miserable. I almost cried out of happyness (most of the time I can barely even cry). Until he told that he was joking and there was no one else which actually for my surprise dissapointed me 'cause I so so want him to be happy, more as I want for myself to be. Seeing him happy makes me too. And I just know that even if I call him in month or two (we hear each other a couple of times a day only on the phone for already 2 months) and I know that it would be the same, nothing would be changed, 'cause you can break a connection like that and it may sound cocky but I'm pretty sure you can't (at least if you don't want to). I'm very glad I met this person. And yes - a soulmate can be a friend, a boyfriend/girlfriend, older or younger, family member or not.. a soul mate - the word speaks for itself. So yes, I do believe in soulmates - I do believe that there are people on earth, with whom you pass perfectly. But not one - there are so many people, it's unthinkable that there is ONLY one. So I hope I'll meet more such people in my life, 'cause they make me happy and the point is being happy. So I wish you all happiness. :)

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