What do you do when your ex-girlfriend's family does not trust you?

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ok listen to yourself...ex girlfriend... if she is your ex then that means you have moved on. I understand if you still have feelings for her and care about her but who cares about the parents...the relationship was between you and your girlfriend not you and your girlfriends family.

IF you want to regain thier trust (from a girls point of view) then go over to her house and be good. Be polite but not a brown noser and make sure the parents know you are all about thier daughter. Parents are especially protective of thier little girls...always keep that in mind.

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Trust, care, admiration, and a good relationship all come when you have proven your trustworthiness. At this point you have not.

First you need to gain back that trust. Then and only then, should you get back together.

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You grow up and move on. Who cares if the "Ex" partner's family approves or likes you any way???? Do they pay your bills????

Why would anyone care if they don't trust you anyway? They probably wouldn't if they were big babies, or if you cheated on the little princess. Who would blame them? But why should you care? Grow up! Move on, and if you all work together, seek another employer or such. Don't let other people dictate your life, especially the "ex" in-laws or people. It's not fair to you or the new person you may be seeing, and why would any new love intereste want to put up with that childish junk?

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She is your ex, not your current. You move on.

Do not worry about what they say or do. Stay away from them, plain and simple.

If they are accusing you of something, make them PROVE IT, even in a court of law, if needed.

To The Point: she is your ex, not your current, so move on. If you are wanting to be/stay friends with her, then you need to tell her how her parents treat you and make you feel. If that can not be resolved, then she is not worth your friendship, your company, and time out of your life. You have other things to worry about, like finding a girlfriend that will stick up for you, when things are in doubt- such as this---(because if she does...I don't see her becoming an ex, such as this one did)

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Patience is very important. Do nice things, and always be honest. There's no trick to building trust because it just takes honesty and time.

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Why do you care what your EX's family think of you? And if she broke up with you because of what her family think, then she is too pathetically weak-willed and not worth your time in the first place.

Win-win!

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It depends, you must have done something to lose there trust? It also seems like you still care for her. You sould talk to her first and reassure her that whatever you did will not happen again and see if a relationsip is salvagable. Then never do again what you were mistrusted for and you do this by actions not just words. Once she sees this change in you, then you ask her how you can make it up to her family as well and hang out with them, it may be awkward but if she loves you, they will love you. People make mistakes, and if you are truly sorry for what you did and comitted not to repeat the mistakes again because you love her then her family will see your maturity, the changes in you that are positive and forget about the bad vibes before.

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Just be successful and responsible in what you do. Make healthy decisions, and move on with your life in a positive way. The rest will take care of itself. If you try too hard to prove yourself to somebody, then they will suspect your motives. You have to do this for yourself, not to change the opinions of others about you. If you're living your life right and for the right reasons, it will be obvious to those around you. Let this happen naturally. Impatience will lead to failure.

It not what you want to hear!

iv also been there , while the relationship is healthy there will always be an artificial smile and hello behind every encounter with her family its a respect they have for there own child to know they support every choice she makes even if it hurts them but sorry this dis trust started long before you parted ways. they would of known about your problems in the relationship and seen an unhappy child long before you realized what happened. you serve no purpose in that household and are probably holding this girl back from moving on with her life get out of there while you still have a chance to have a future friend.

Okay?

What do you care about your ex's family for? It's not like the two of you are still together, wait are you? Because, if you are you shouldn't be the one to worry. If your ex lets her family control them, then I'm sorry to say that they may have lost out on a good person.

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